Every decision we make is governed by God's loving laws. When a woman and man have sex and a child's soul is attracted to a fertilizing egg, the opportunity to raise a new life on Earth is given to that couple and to the world.
Unfortunately, many people today see child-rearing as a burden. Some vile mothers and fathers dare to say, "I brought you into the world and I can take you out of it!" Others love to talk ad nauseam to friends and family about the great tribulation that comes with raising a child.
But if the opportunity to raise a child is a gift, then it cannot be a trial or a tribulation or any kind of burden unto you.
People need to WAKE UP! There are so many addictions associated with raising children. It's no wonder we grow up so screwed in the heart and head when we have little to no conception of what love is... when we are guided to hate, steal, cheat, lie, and manipulate by the very first people we set eyes upon.
One major truth that has not been explored is the ability for a child to take care of itself. By age 5, a child can perform basic tasks in its own interest.
Such tasks include:
- tidying up after yourself
- doing laundry
- making a simple meal (yes, including boiling water)
- doing dishes
- keeping their room clean and tidy
A child properly trained, by age 6, can:
- go out walking on its own
- navigate public transportation
- handle its own diet
- handle money and shop for its own clothes
- have a small job like mowing lawns or raking leaves
Now take these examples, which are typically expected of children by age 13 or so, and consider the exponential growth that can occur.
The central problem inhibiting children from achieving their potential early is the addictive demands of parents. Parents love taking care of their children. It gives them a sense of purpose in life and keeps their fears at bay. Have you ever heard someone say, "I can't hang out, I've got kids at home." Parents derive a lot of temporary pleasure from providing for children.
The great unknown secret is that children can take care of themselves. A 7-year-old can have its own dwelling, have a career, and manage its own finances.
It is because we want to TAKE from children that they are not allowed to do this.
But consider the stress load that would be removed from the shoulders of adults if children were properly guided. So many adults believe they have to take care of their children for many years. I'm saying, don't kick your children out of the home at 18. Kick them out by the time their 7!
The belief that this would separate children from their guardians is incorrect. They would still remain your loving brother or sister and they will probably still come to you for guidance, assistance, and the joy of spending time together. The only thing that would keep a child away is violence in a parent.
Finally, let me make one more revolutionary statement:
Your children are not yours!
They are, in fact, God's children, just as you are God's child. So, essentially, "your child" is really your brother or sister.
Of course, they were attracted to you for a reason. There is something between your soul and theirs that made them incarnate in your womb or your mate's womb.
Please see that children are a blessing, not a curse. They are not burdens to labor over.
If you really want to guide your children in life, teach them that God is their loving Heavenly Parent and has placed a lifetime of beautiful gifts before them (the chief one being God's Divine Love). Be grateful that God gifted you with this little bundle of joy for the short time you must be their guardian and the life of brotherly/sisterly love beyond.
Unfortunately, many people today see child-rearing as a burden. Some vile mothers and fathers dare to say, "I brought you into the world and I can take you out of it!" Others love to talk ad nauseam to friends and family about the great tribulation that comes with raising a child.
But if the opportunity to raise a child is a gift, then it cannot be a trial or a tribulation or any kind of burden unto you.
People need to WAKE UP! There are so many addictions associated with raising children. It's no wonder we grow up so screwed in the heart and head when we have little to no conception of what love is... when we are guided to hate, steal, cheat, lie, and manipulate by the very first people we set eyes upon.
One major truth that has not been explored is the ability for a child to take care of itself. By age 5, a child can perform basic tasks in its own interest.
Such tasks include:
- tidying up after yourself
- doing laundry
- making a simple meal (yes, including boiling water)
- doing dishes
- keeping their room clean and tidy
A child properly trained, by age 6, can:
- go out walking on its own
- navigate public transportation
- handle its own diet
- handle money and shop for its own clothes
- have a small job like mowing lawns or raking leaves
Now take these examples, which are typically expected of children by age 13 or so, and consider the exponential growth that can occur.
The central problem inhibiting children from achieving their potential early is the addictive demands of parents. Parents love taking care of their children. It gives them a sense of purpose in life and keeps their fears at bay. Have you ever heard someone say, "I can't hang out, I've got kids at home." Parents derive a lot of temporary pleasure from providing for children.
The great unknown secret is that children can take care of themselves. A 7-year-old can have its own dwelling, have a career, and manage its own finances.
It is because we want to TAKE from children that they are not allowed to do this.
But consider the stress load that would be removed from the shoulders of adults if children were properly guided. So many adults believe they have to take care of their children for many years. I'm saying, don't kick your children out of the home at 18. Kick them out by the time their 7!
The belief that this would separate children from their guardians is incorrect. They would still remain your loving brother or sister and they will probably still come to you for guidance, assistance, and the joy of spending time together. The only thing that would keep a child away is violence in a parent.
Finally, let me make one more revolutionary statement:
Your children are not yours!
They are, in fact, God's children, just as you are God's child. So, essentially, "your child" is really your brother or sister.
Of course, they were attracted to you for a reason. There is something between your soul and theirs that made them incarnate in your womb or your mate's womb.
Please see that children are a blessing, not a curse. They are not burdens to labor over.
If you really want to guide your children in life, teach them that God is their loving Heavenly Parent and has placed a lifetime of beautiful gifts before them (the chief one being God's Divine Love). Be grateful that God gifted you with this little bundle of joy for the short time you must be their guardian and the life of brotherly/sisterly love beyond.
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